'My son is my lover' SHOCKING STORY OF MUM'S ATTRACTION TO BOY SHE GAVE UP FOR ADOPTION; …and we're desperate to have our own baby.

WHEN Julie Harvey was reunited with the child she gave up for

adoption, she expected to feel a rush of maternal love.

But the feelings she had were far more disturbing. She was deeply

sexually attracted to her own son… and, shockingly, he felt the same

way about her.

Now, 17 months after their reunion, handsome Jeff Anderson and

Julie are lovers. And in an even more jawdropping confession, the couple

have revealed they are desperately trying for a baby – and have even

saved up for IVF to make it happen.

“Our love is pure,” insists Julie, 45.

“I never raised Jeff. I had him when I was 16 and he was

adopted. We were reunited in 2011 and immediately fell for each

other.”

SOULMATE

Office manager Jeff, 29, explains he doesn’t think of Julie as

his mum, so sex between them isn’t wrong.

“Meeting my biological mother was like meeting my sexual

soulmate. I want to spend all my spare time with her. My adopted parents

were my real mum and dad. We don’t feel guilty about our behaviour.

It’s not incest, it’s Genetic Sexual Attraction and it’s

not our fault. We’re in love and refuse to apologise for

that.”

But the couple admit they live in fear of the laws against incest.

Julie, who says she has already miscarried one baby by her son,

says: “We have moved twice and plan to move again once I’m

pregnant.”

She is now taking fertility tablets to boost her chances.

“If they don’t work, we have PS20,000 for IVF, so we can

be a proper mummy and daddy,” she says.

“Anyone who criticises us and our desire to start a family is

uneducated. You can’t stop who you love and it’s our basic

human right to have children.”

In another bizarre twist, the couple have tracked down Julie’s

first true love and Jeff’s biological father – and amazingly he has

given them his blessing.

Julie explains: “Henry, or ‘H’ as I used to call

him, was my first boyfriend and took my virginity. He left when I got

pregnant but I found him because Jeff wanted to know him. We admitted we

were ‘husband and wife’ and told him about GSA.

“He was disgusted at first, but we begged him to listen. Then

he gave us his blessing. He said, ‘Life’s too

short’.”

Jeff adds: “Meeting my biological father helped me put the

puzzle together. I can’t forgive him for leaving Julie before I was

born, but I needed to know who he was. Now Julie and I are focused on

making a baby. In my eyes Julie is my ‘wife’ and after we have

a baby, we will have a commitment ceremony. I can’t wait to become

a daddy.”

Back in 1983 in San Jose, California, Julie had been dating Henry

for more than a year when found out she was pregnant.

“I was young and in love,” she recalls. “I

desperately wanted to keep the baby. Henry was wavering and he had

college to start. His parents sent him to Canada when I was three

months’ pregnant and he cut all contact. I was heartbroken. My

parents told me adoption was my only option.”

In January 1984, Julie gave birth to her son after a 14-hour

labour. Her parents had organised a private adoption and she suffered

severe post-natal depression.

But with the help of therapy she studied business administration at

college and settled in the New York suburbs.

“I had three longterm relationships but never recovered from

the loss of my child. His adopted parents sent me a picture of him. I

would constantly look at it, seeing how beautiful he was,” she

says.

Julie tried to find Jeff when she turned 20 but the adoption agency

refused to give her any information. Meanwhile, he was growing up in Las

Vegas, adopted by an older couple.

“I had a great life and knew I was adopted from the age of

10,” he says. “I was spoilt rotten and started looking for my

mother at 18.”

His adoptive mother died of lung cancer at 64 in 2008 and a year

later his father died of a heart attack at 72. At that point Jeff hired

a detective in 2009 to find his birth mother. In November 2011 there was

a breakthrough.

“He handed me a file with a name, address and photo, and I

knew instantly it was my biological mother. I already enjoyed dating

older women and I thought she was sexy. “

Rather than calling Julie, Jeff, who admits he is impulsive, jumped

on a plane and arrived on her doorstep that December. When she opened

the door, her life changed for ever.

“I instantly knew he was my son,” she says. “I was

shaking with emotion and I invited him in and we spent six hours

talking. I cried, I laughed, I just couldn’t believe what was

happening. My dream had come true.” The pair discovered they both

loved crime shows and spicy food, had similar shaped ears and smiled in

the same way. Both are allergic to nuts and cats.

At the end of his visit, after tearful Julie took Jeff to the

airport, they talked twice a day, emailed constantly and sent hundreds

of texts. A month later she flew to Las Vegas for two weeks.

TERRIFIED

“I couldn’t stop thinking about him and while I tried to

muster maternal feelings, all I felt was a rapidly growing attraction

towards this beautiful man. I was terrified to admit it.

“At that point I didn’t know about GSA. I felt my

feelings were incestuous but when Jeff started saying I was his special

lady, I was like a schoolgirl. Then after the butterflies, came

disgust.” Five days into the visit the pair ended up drunk and at

Jeff’s apartment after a night out. “It was 1am, we were

giggling and as we walked in, Jeff kissed me. Instead of being repelled,

I returned his kiss passionately. But after five minutes, I pulled away.

I’d never felt so sexually alive but at the same time disgusted

with myself,” says Julie.

“I explained I had lusted after him since we first met but

that it was a sin. Jeff explained about GSA and the next day I went to

see a therapist with him. He talked to me about GSA and warned it was

illegal to act on it.”

Jeff adds: “I was attracted to Julie since we first met and

after we left the therapist, I took her hand. We hardly spoke on the

drive home but you could have cut the air with the sexual tension.”

That night, the couple slept together for the first time. Three

weeks later Julie invited Jeff to move to New York State to live with

her. She told friends she’d met Jeff on a casino holiday to avoid

suspicion.

“They were all so jealous I’d found a sexy toy boy,”

she says. “We also became members of GSA forums and talked to other

GSA couples about their lives. Everything was and is perfect. Apart from

a baby.”

The next step for Jeff was to find his natural father, and the

couple tracked down Henry in May 2012. “It was a difficult

meeting,” recalls Julie.

“Jeff took my hand and announced we were dating. Henry was the

first person we told. Initially he said we were disgusting, but he

finally accepted it.”

She adds: “I knew Jeff wanted kids and I knew I wanted to give

him a child. When I said I’d do anything to give him a child he was

overjoyed.”

After losing one baby, they are determined to keep trying.

Despite knowing a child could be born with defects because of

interbreeding, risks, they insist they will make amazing parents and

plan to tell their son or daughter about their “unique

relationship” at the age of 14.

And Julie adds: “After we have our child I want to

‘marry’ my son. Then our life will be perfect.”

What is Genetic Sexual Attraction?

GENETIC Sexual Attraction (GSA) is when sexual feelings develop

between two family members who first meet as adults.

It can happen to siblings, half-siblings, parents and children,

usually when one has been abandoned, adopted or raised apart due to

divorce or separation.

In Ireland, sex with a parent, child, sibling, nephew, niece, uncle

or aunt is defined as incest and is illegal. In the US, rules vary and

the state of Rhode Island actually decriminalised incest in 1989.

The term GSA was coined in the US in the 1980s by Barbara Gonyo,

who founded a support group after her experience with the son she met 26

years after adoption.

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CAPTION(S):

Unrepentant… Jeff and Julie feel no guilt about their

relationship

ADOPTED Baby Jeff with adoptive parents

Pictures: REAL LIFE STORY AGENCY

FIRST LOVE Young couple Julie and Henry in 1980s

MEETING DAD Henry has given pair his blessing

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